i’m not sure i can do this anymore
You don’t talk anymore because he doesn’t listen. You’re tired of feeling like you’re doing all the work in the house, in the family, and in the relationship. Feeling unheard, invisible and lonely. Worst roommate ever.
Get your best friend back.
It starts with a conversation. You’ll share your history, and I’ll help you see a future. We’ll identify what drew you together in the first place and focus on what strengths you both bring to the party. You’ll each have an individual session to help you uncover any core beliefs about relationships that need to be addressed.
Start talking, and listening, again.
Moving forward we’ll make sure you have the communication tools to help you see each other’s perspective in a way that makes sense. With practice, you’ll learn to recognize the problem patterns in your relationship and how to address them without anger or defensiveness.
It’s possible.
It is possible to repair and reconnect.
What you can expect in Couples Therapy
50 minutes of “Us” time where you’ll get
- hope that your relationship can be saved
- objective support
- guidance that addresses both sides
- new communication skills
- a safe place to say what’s really on your mind
If you’re ready to get back in the game, click the button below.
Deciding to start couples therapy is a major milestone, but sometimes the “aha!” moment is less about a deep epiphany and more about realizing your household has become a sitcom without a laugh track.
You know you’re ready for couples therapy with Laura when…
- You’ve become so good at the “silent treatment” that you’ve developed a sophisticated language of aggressive blinking and pointed sighs to communicate whose turn it is to take out the trash.
- You realize the most romantic thing you’ve said to each other in three days is a debate over whose turn it is to empty the dishwasher or if the dog actually needs another walk.
- You’ve started using the dog as a mediator, saying things like, “Cooper, can you tell your father that he left his wet towel on the bed again?” while your spouse is standing three feet away.
- Every minor disagreement about what to eat for dinner eventually turns into a detailed, chronological review of every mistake made by both parties since the year 2014.
- Your search history is a chaotic mix of “how to fix a relationship,” “why is he like this,” and “can you go to therapy for someone else’s personality?”
While these moments feel heavy, laughing at the absurdity is a sign that you still care enough to be frustrated. Couples counseling isn’t a sign of failure; it’s an investment in a “translator” who can help you both hear what the other is actually trying to say. Scroll down to schedule your game plan.